A direct cremation, also known as an unattended cremation, is an affordable, fuss-free alternative to a traditional funeral. Usually, the deceased is taken straight to the crematorium without a funeral ceremony or anyone in attendance, and the ashes are returned to the family.
The research on behalf of pre-paid funeral plan provider, Ecclesiastical Planning Services, revealed that 33% of over 50s have considered a direct cremation for themselves. 13% weren’t sure of their funeral preferences. The 33% who would opt for a direct cremation, were then asked to provide reasons for this and could select multiple options. Nearly three quarters said it was because they didn’t want a fuss, and over half because they didn’t want a traditional service. And with the cost-of-living crisis biting, it’s unsurprising that over a third cited financial reasons.
And so, for the cost-conscious, or those who don’t want to burden loved ones financially, a direct cremation package offers a pared-back and easy choice. Understandable too, that the availability to buy online may also appeal as generations become increasingly digital in their outlook.
Many local funeral directors are now offering unattended cremations (or hybrid arrangements), whilst crucially still providing families with bereavement support, and often with the option to add personal elements like viewing or dressing of the deceased that national direct cremation packages may not.
Funeral directors may also be able to assist with memorial events. The survey further revealed that 23% said that their family are happy to arrange a wake or get together separately. Because a direct cremation does not include a traditional service, families can choose to hold a separate memorial or scattering ceremony at a place that is meaningful to them. The event is not time bound and can happen when the family are ready, but often happens once the ashes have been returned.
A direct cremation might be the obvious choice but talking to loved ones about the decision is key and can avoid further worry when you’re gone. One respondent said, 'I don't want my children to have to go through the same upset they did when their Dad died’. If your wishes are known and understood, then they can be respected, or discussed openly.
Emma Simpson, Marketing Manager at Ecclesiastical Planning Services comments, “We recognise that not all customers desire a traditional funeral, and our network of funeral directors is available to discuss various options including alternative arrangements.”
Source: OnePoll research of 1,000 UK residents aged 50 and above, on behalf of Ecclesiastical Planning Services, October 2023.